Is a narcissist capable of understanding the damage and the hurt that they have caused in your relationship?

You're not a person, but only a source of energy and something to parasite off of. Then the parasite needs to let you go so they can be free of you and suck off somebody else.

My ex-narcissist used to hurt me physically during supposedly "intimate" moments. Then he would smile evilly.

Narcissists don't care how much they hurt you, or if they used you.

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His way to shut me up was pretending he was having "heart attacks” or driving into traffic to scare me. Soon enough, being around this ugly bastard gave me extreme anxiety and panic attacks.

So again, narcissists simply have no empathy, and no conscience. You could literally be in a ditch dying, and they will leave you there.

Contrast this with how they behaved in the beginning, and you will see what monstruous and inhuman beings they are. This is how they are all acting with the new supply right now. With every new supply, they put up an act, pretending to be someone they are not, until it no longer suits them.

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I was in love with some weird unrealistic fantasy that did not exist. I cast all of my standards aside for this ugly pos that wore his jeans down to his ankles.

When I once exclaimed that he hurt me, he ignored what I said and acted as if he had not heard me. But he was very quick to criticise me if I even said anything about his behaviours.

And they really don't care one bit about anyone they used, they actually just want to get rid of you as fast as possible.

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And yes, he was ugly too, but I idealised him. It was only when my mother stated "he is so ugly!" that I realised she was right. And my mother is always very blunt and doesn’t mince words.

That's why they hate you so much. They actually always hated you, but they really show you just how much once they need to be rid of you.

And that is when I started to get my groove back. When I realized I had been living in a delusion with this beast of a man who had no redeeming qualities.

Why cant I feel anything in my sleep? I cannot even feel myself moving, breathing, and swallowing saliva! I cannot even hear anything, not even my alarm! Some people that I've been with says that I'm moving a lot in my sleep, how can I stop it?

They don't even care if they actually leave you permanently injured, or if you're going to die.

You are not a human being to them, you are a resource.. There are no feelings attached at all. You are literally just nothing to them, and the irony is that they are the absolute worst examples of what a person can be. Oh, the irony!

These narcissistic pieces of trash come in and out of your life, and then move on like the disgusting slimy parasites that they actually are.

If a non-LGBT man (of any age) from a Western country attracts far more mosquitoes than potential dates, what does that say about him?

They are now in someone else's house, sleeping in their bed, eating their food, and pretending to be "happy" around them.

Think about it. You're just a tool to be used, that is all.